This past weekend, I attended my 40th high school class reunion (Shawnee Mission South class of 1985). Something happened at the events that I attended that left me amazed - I thoroughly enjoyed myself. Before I go further, I will happily acknowledge that those who put on the events that I attended - particularly the main event on Saturday night - did a terrific job and put on a wonderful reunion. They deserve all the credit in the world, and I am happy to throw that credit their way.
This was not about rehashing all the stupid stuff we did in high school. I'm sure there were some memories recounted during the evening, but it was about connecting with people and where they are today. There were plenty of smiles, laughs and hugs all around. These were all very good things. I enjoyed conversations with people that I barely said two words to in high school. But the connection today, even though it was only a few moments, was priceless. That was then, this is now. I also enjoyed seeing a few people for the first time since high school and hearing about their lives today.
I am not the same person that I was forty years ago, and for that I am grateful. If I am the same person today that I was then, what was the point of the last forty years? Each of us has had the whole range of experiences that have shaped who we are today. And it is a little bit different for each of us. And yet, in so many ways, we are all very similar. I loved hearing about it all. My favorite observation for the evening came from the lady who said that all she wanted from the reunion was the see everyone and know that we are happy in life. So simple, yet so beautiful. I completely agree with that sentiment.
Thank you to all who said hi and took the time to visit with me. I enjoyed the moments and enjoyed hearing about where your lives are these days. Thank you once again to those who organized the events of the weekend. It was a resounding success! We were a damn good class and for those few moments, I truly understood that there is nothing greater than a Raider!!
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Well said Chuck. It was a resounding success and there truly is nothing greater than a Raider. For a couple of nights phones were down and we were able to connect with one another - no agendas, just good ole fashioned conversation and friendship!
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